Hi there,
I just got back from Barcelona a couple of weeks ago. I was there for 11 weeks studying Spanish at don Quijote Language School. I had hopes of staying in Barcelona, as I want to live there permanently....
Here's the thing, I did a great deal of traveling for several months so by the time I got to Spain, I had run out of money :mellow: so I had to come back to the US....
About living in Spain, if you are American (and because you have a family) I would suggest going through the incredably tedious and arduous ordeal of obtaining a visa...because it is impossible to work there legally otherwise and with a family I'm guessing that flying by the seat of your pants (which is how I always seem to do things

) is not really an option for you.
I'm single, so for me, it's simply a matter of saving up a sizeable chunk of cash (since I've been there, and I know the cost of living, I am working for the next 18 months to save up somewhere in the neighborhood of $7k - that way if I don't find work for six months I can still support myself)
I am also going to take two more quick trips out to Barcelona one in six months and then another closer to my estimated move date which is May 2005. I am going to hire an attorney to begin the process for obtaining a self-employment visa when I make the first visit in six months. It will probably take a year to get my visa (this I am guestimating on, but is based on conversations with various foreigners who were/are living in Barcelona as well as research from various web sites including this one).
If you're not American, if you're from the UK, then everything I just said about obtaining a visa is irrelevant for you. If you're Canadian, or Australian or a New Zealander (is that correct?) then you would have to check with the Spanish Consulate General's office nearest you.
As far as other areas in Spain, I can't offer any advice there, because, well since I'd run out of money...well I didn't go anywhere :rolleyes:
I loved it there by the way :wub: which is why I am planning my return much more extensively this time around. I had planned my trip to Europe for more than a year, but I just didn't plan on how much money would I spend on traveling (i.e. ferries to/from different islands of Greece, how expensive Venice Italy was, etc...my own shortcomings

) So like the old saying goes....if at first you don't succeed....well you know the rest
Anyway, I hope I've said something useful

....if you want drop me a private message, I'll answer any questions I can.
Salud!
Michelle