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As I understand it, most of those heading off to Spain will be in their early to mid-twenties and recent graduates of university. As someone who recently turned 26 (October, 2010), and who graduated from university in 2007, I feel that I will be a little on the older side. Is that safe to say, or am I just over-thinking the situation? I'd really like to connect with some of the older members here, just to see what their plans are, and how they feel being a little bit older might impact their experience in Spain. Sorry if I am rambling, I've been up for a while!
Im 35 and it is nice to know there are other people over 30 in this program. I find this such a great opportunity. I have had such a great working life and school life so now I want to experience something new. To me you can't compare your life to others because it's your life and you have to live it. Do what you want...like TI said.. Live Your Life! LOL! Anyway, I am waiting to hear if I will be living and teaching in Spain. So exciting! Cheers
Thanks for starting this thread, mdechelle! I feel you on this one.Assuming I'm accepted, I'll be starting as a first year language assistant at 26. I'm leaving full-time employment behind, and I'm wondering what I'll have in common with a bunch of fresh-faced 22-year-olds who haven't had to deal with (attempting to) start a career while knee-deep in the recession. I have a few thoughts on managing my expectations, etc.1.) If you want to hang with the 22-year-olds, invest in 5-hour energy shots (or the Spanish equivalent). The youngsters are going to want to go out (late); if that's where we're looking to base our friend groups...we're going to need some extra juice.2.) Don't hang out with the youngsters. This is what I'll probably do; I spent a 6 months abroad after college, and I know that I was a hot mess with culture shock. I may be wrong, but I'm guessing a lot of the young assistants will be the same. I like to think of myself as older and wiser now, not to mention capable to finding better company. In short, I'm not "young at heart." I don't hang out with people younger than myself now, and I don't plan to do so when I'm in Spain. I'm not saying I plan to isolate myself from other assistants, but I do plan to act my age!
I´m going to be devil´s advocate here, but I started my first year when I was 21, just out of University. Yes, I´m younger, but that doesn´t mean I´m an idiot. The good thing about the auxiliar program is it is different from study abroad. Applying, getting into, and managing the visa and daily requirements of a real life outside the country, not just a brief stay, requires a bit more planning and interest than signing up for a prefabricated study abroad. The people who are auxiliars here, whether we are 21 or 37, tend (in my opinion) to be slightly more "serious" than people here to study. Most of us come with work experience, I have worked since I was 14. Most of us are hellbent on learning perfect Spanish, I still have a study date with friends and I´m well into my second year. Yes, we party, but then again Spanish people into their 50s are out until 3 am on weekends. It´s a culture.Just as you wouldn´t want people to judge you on your age, assuming you are a certain way because you are plus 26, don´t write off us younger people as drink-until-8am-on-weeknights idiots. Come with an open mind.
Has anyone over age 35 been place? I was number #1167 and I know off others who are over 35 that have not been placed yet either and had lower numbers than me. I hope applying was not a waste of my time. I love Spain so much and I did the program 2 years ago.
it does it does say in the manual that over 35 is subject for review by the specific region. i am #2587, so i am still waiting of course. you might want to send an email. please do!!
Congratulations, Farmgirl! I know that the application process has been a giant headache for you, and I'm very happy to hear that you and your husband finally got placed. I hope your language assistant experience will be a good one from here on out.
Thank you so much. We are so overjoyed about the possibilities. The process has been a lesson in patience for me...which I am not very good at...and I think I will be getting a lot more practice with the rest of the process!
I'm so excited for you!!! I know how badly you wanted this
It is my understanding that for whatever reason, the 'older applicants' are having to wait a bit. I encourage anyone and everyone who has not yet been placed to contact their education person and cc: Pedro Rey in DC. For what it's worth, my husband and I are 49 and 54 respectively and are coming over to Extremadura with our two daughters, ages 15 and 9 -- so we came in to this with a pretty unique circumstance.
congrats!!! you really deserve it because you pushed so hard for this...i thought i had to do a big move but you all are doing an adventure. i can't wait to hear about your settlement!
Yes -- we have a huge move....last year we left the country for 4-months, so we have a sense of what we need to do, but this will involve a lot more logistics. Last night my husband and I talked about just getting a sheet of paper and putting down whatever comes to mind about what we have to do....then trying to structure it all...other wise one can go c-r-a-z-y very quickly!We'll be happy anywhere we are placed, but would prefer the northern area (Caceres, Placencia).
you are able to pick where you want to live right? i know for regions that have several cities are picking. i was placed in castilla y leon. i got my email on friday asking for my preference city.
I was so happy when I came across this forum being that I'm 41. I am currently in the waiting to apply for the Visa stage and can't believe I am about to embark on this wonderful new experience.
Hi Christine -- it's nice to see that there are "older folks" (although I don't think of myself as an "older folk") doing this program. Do you know where you're going?
Hi guys. I'm glad we fourty and fifty-something got placed too. I'm a 41-year old from Chicago area going to Castilla y Leon.
Wait...I want to start another thread....The 'anyone going with kids' thread.
I'll be 31 in June and will be going with my two school aged children. I'm really excited about this opportunity but I'm a little nervous too. It's good to know that there are other over 30's and parents going too. Kellidoscope, you've been a great source of info so far, I'm sure I'll have more questions for you soon!
How old are your children? Are they going to attend local schools where you live?
The same thoughts went through my head to be honest. I'm 25 and I do feel a bit "older" than the average applicant but I don't think it's a huge deal.What concerns me more is that I'm leaving my life behind (stable job etc.) to do embark on a crazy Spanish adventure. My friends think I'm nuts!
They are 10 and 8 and yes I plan for them to attend local schools. They are really excited about this whole experience. They know minimal spanish so we are working on them learning as much as they can now. We've been to spain on vacation before but I'm trying to prepare them for reality of being away for an extended amount of time.Are your kids going to go to local schools?
Basically, I want to look back and have stories to tell rather than dreams unfulfilled.