Wow Rebecca... This is powerful. I hope that all of you that are planning to travel outside of the US take some time to read this and reflect upon it. It has some fantastic advice in it.
Along those lines, I always found it interesting that I really started learning how to speak Spanish and understand the Spanish culture better when I finally began to
shut up and listen to everyone else more effectively! My wife especially enjoyed that part of my learning curve.... the shutting up, that is!